If you run into a broad with a few of these symptoms, watch out. BPD
girls live in an unfortunate state of arrested development, as if you
took a perpetually hormonal 12 year old and gave it the body and power
of an adult. This is an especially dangerous combination because
attractive girls, no matter how crazy, are essentially allowed to get
away with anything in our society. These girls will be incredible
manipulators and will turn people against you, since there is never a
shortage of white knights ready to assuage a pretty girl’s perceived
distress. The combination of impunity and impulsiveness makes them prime
targets to throw out a false rape accusation, destroy your property,
stalk you, and attempt to ruin your life from the inside out. The
commonalities in the few girls I’ve encountered like this are:
Huge and unpredictable mood swings — From lovey-dovey to scary-rage in two seconds flat.
Child-like fascination with both infantile and adult subject matter — She may obsess over cute puppies and kitties, but also searches out the sensory overload like hardcore porn and gory slasher movies without batting an eye.
Risk-seeking behavior: She loves unprotected sex, gambling, and dangerous thrill-seeking. She lacks a filter before saying something or make a decision.
Your best solution? Disengage. Walk away. Even a superlatively attractive girl is not worth the mental anguish her presence will cause. If she’s especially hot, your ego is going to push you to stay with her despite knowing that she is trouble
Ok, bottom line here is that this article is written from a viewpoint of pure selfishness and blame calling, treating people with bpd as if they choose to behave this way, which most do not. in fact, most do not even realize anything is wrong because most people just push them aside for their behavior, which only makes the problem worse. I happen to be married, YES married, to a woman with bpd and I wouldn't change her for the world. you see real love is self-sacrificing mutually, and yes even people with bpd experience this love and can have very meaningful relationships. The real trouble here is men who look at women as nothing more than objects for their amusement, narcissistic much? Grow up guys, it takes real men to handle someone with bpd, not teenagers
Borderlines are the "Devil's Handmaidens." Yes, they frequently look astonishingly beautiful and irresistible. Yes, they can afford you spectacular episodes of sexual ecstasy that will stay in your mind for the rest of your life.
But then there's the downside; like how they use their emotional mood-swings to dominate and control you! The pathological way they always see everything and blame you for virtually every single problem in the world today.
Also, how do you deal with the childishness and constant attention getting immaturity? How do you deal with the tantrums and extreme emotional bi-polarity? How do you deal with the disturbing narcissistic selfishness like you don't even exist?
Borderlines are known for self-harming behaviors like cutting on themselves or some other self-destruction; one of the things they will do is provoke you to no end until you are ready to explode and beat the living shit out of them...(Which is secretly what they want! Why self-harm when they can get you to do it?)
No, it doesn't take a "Real Man" to handle someone with BPD...it takes a dysfunctional, co-dependent man who believes he doesn't deserve better or is so captured by her beauty he can't let her go because she looks so good because his "nads" are in a Mason Jar ...!
It takes a Real Man to walk away from this nightmare and enjoy the life he's been given enough not to waste it on someone who is incapable of a healthy reciprocal relationship. Why put up with it? It's not worth it!
If you've truly found a way to keep her in check, then more power to you. You should write about how you did it and publish it. You will become and instant billionaire overnight!
Two of her ex's have committed suicide - the damage (some) of these people inflict is immeasurable. Yes, Borderline is a spectrum, but the "high functioning" ones can be the most dangerous.
I feel tremendous pity, and heartfelt sympathy and compassion
for all BPD sufferers. Because they didn’t ask for this disorder! The mentally
ill have been dealt a hand of cards that is unfair in its arbitration and
consequences.
You cannot know how often I have wept for BPD sufferers and
those severely impacted by their disorder. We all go into relationships looking
for love and support and fulfillment. The Human organism is a social creature.
The problem here is like all BPD’s you misinterpret emotional
cues and expressions of others. You misinterpret my motives and what I expound
upon because you primarily perceive them from a defensive perspective.
Bpd’s “see plots against them” where none exist! BPD’s
suspect acts of love and affection are carried out with ulterior motives. BPD’s
cannot trust others and shy away from real intimacy. And BPD’s intentionally express
inappropriate sarcasm and missives unnecessarily often with the intent to
provoke emotional disquiet, confusion and anger in others. This projection of
their disordered mentality is another facet of the BPD paradigm.
Huge and unpredictable mood swings — From lovey-dovey to scary-rage in two seconds flat.
Child-like fascination with both infantile and adult subject matter — She may obsess over cute puppies and kitties, but also searches out the sensory overload like hardcore porn and gory slasher movies without batting an eye.
Risk-seeking behavior: She loves unprotected sex, gambling, and dangerous thrill-seeking. She lacks a filter before saying something or make a decision.
Your best solution? Disengage. Walk away. Even a superlatively attractive girl is not worth the mental anguish her presence will cause. If she’s especially hot, your ego is going to push you to stay with her despite knowing that she is trouble
Ok, bottom line here is that this article is written from a viewpoint of pure selfishness and blame calling, treating people with bpd as if they choose to behave this way, which most do not. in fact, most do not even realize anything is wrong because most people just push them aside for their behavior, which only makes the problem worse. I happen to be married, YES married, to a woman with bpd and I wouldn't change her for the world. you see real love is self-sacrificing mutually, and yes even people with bpd experience this love and can have very meaningful relationships. The real trouble here is men who look at women as nothing more than objects for their amusement, narcissistic much? Grow up guys, it takes real men to handle someone with bpd, not teenagers
Borderlines are the "Devil's Handmaidens." Yes, they frequently look astonishingly beautiful and irresistible. Yes, they can afford you spectacular episodes of sexual ecstasy that will stay in your mind for the rest of your life.
But then there's the downside; like how they use their emotional mood-swings to dominate and control you! The pathological way they always see everything and blame you for virtually every single problem in the world today.
Also, how do you deal with the childishness and constant attention getting immaturity? How do you deal with the tantrums and extreme emotional bi-polarity? How do you deal with the disturbing narcissistic selfishness like you don't even exist?
Borderlines are known for self-harming behaviors like cutting on themselves or some other self-destruction; one of the things they will do is provoke you to no end until you are ready to explode and beat the living shit out of them...(Which is secretly what they want! Why self-harm when they can get you to do it?)
No, it doesn't take a "Real Man" to handle someone with BPD...it takes a dysfunctional, co-dependent man who believes he doesn't deserve better or is so captured by her beauty he can't let her go because she looks so good because his "nads" are in a Mason Jar ...!
It takes a Real Man to walk away from this nightmare and enjoy the life he's been given enough not to waste it on someone who is incapable of a healthy reciprocal relationship. Why put up with it? It's not worth it!
If you've truly found a way to keep her in check, then more power to you. You should write about how you did it and publish it. You will become and instant billionaire overnight!
Two of her ex's have committed suicide - the damage (some) of these people inflict is immeasurable. Yes, Borderline is a spectrum, but the "high functioning" ones can be the most dangerous.
I feel tremendous pity, and heartfelt sympathy and compassion
for all BPD sufferers. Because they didn’t ask for this disorder! The mentally
ill have been dealt a hand of cards that is unfair in its arbitration and
consequences.
You cannot know how often I have wept for BPD sufferers and
those severely impacted by their disorder. We all go into relationships looking
for love and support and fulfillment. The Human organism is a social creature.
The problem here is like all BPD’s you misinterpret emotional
cues and expressions of others. You misinterpret my motives and what I expound
upon because you primarily perceive them from a defensive perspective.
Bpd’s “see plots against them” where none exist! BPD’s
suspect acts of love and affection are carried out with ulterior motives. BPD’s
cannot trust others and shy away from real intimacy. And BPD’s intentionally express
inappropriate sarcasm and missives unnecessarily often with the intent to
provoke emotional disquiet, confusion and anger in others. This projection of
their disordered mentality is another facet of the BPD paradigm.
������ Buddy, you are obviously basing your overall opinion of people with bpd on one bad relationship. You sound but hurt and completely uneducated on the subject. Your exactly an example of why people with bpd are so stigmatized. Do us all a favor and make like the last to ��
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